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Give HER - and Yourself - A Fashion Show! Let’s continue on our theme from last week, that being how to experience incredible intimacy with your foreign girl. As mentioned before… it’s all about the preparation and presentation. Remember guys, you have to think about your girl’s typical romantic experience. It’s not like all foreign guys are romantically clueless. And keep in mind that many of the men your typically younger foreign girl will be courted by (if you can call it courting) will be much younger, more handsome and in better shape than you or I. BUT – what we lack in cultural familiarity we will more than make up for in creativity and effort. Seduction that is patient, unhurried and brilliantly executed will earn your girl’s love and surrender – and make for an ultimate intimate experience. So, remember that treasure chest I encouraged you to create in last week’s blog? Well, let’s open it up again. This is your girl, she loves you, and she’s ready for you and you for her. Let’s surprise her with an awesome idea, wrapped in decoration and atmosphere – let’s give her a foreign bride fashion show. And guess who gets to be Giselle?! Now, I hesitate to even bring this idea up – giving your girl a new wardrobe that combines seasonal fashions, jewelry, perfume and even negligee – because I know that more than one gullible guy will attempt to do this with someone who hasn’t earned it yet. There are too many guys who try to buy the heart of a foreign girl because they think dropping tons of money and gifts on a girl they‘ve barely met is the sure way to her heart. I am NOT suggesting you try this until you have met, courted, fallen in love with and become intimate – or are ready to be intimate – with your foreign girl. If AND ONLY IF - everything I just mentioned is in play, however, then here’s how to make a fashion show fantasy come to life. Believe me, this will take some work and a serious sense of style but… this WILL be fun! Let’s paint a picture. You’ve invited your girl for dinner at your flat. Maybe you’ve cooked something spectacular for her; maybe the two of you are cooking together. BTW – learn how to cook a few recipes. It won’t kill you – and it WILL impress her because once again – how much cooking do you think your foreign girl has had done for her before you met? There are abundant recipes for incredibly scrumptious dishes. Plan an awesome meal – keep it relatively simple so you can be sure to find all the ingredients abroad. Have the candles lit, the flowers center-table, the most romantic music warming the background – and cook her socks off. You’ll need a few bottles of wine or champagne, and a little Russian Standard vodka could come in handy as well. Here’s an example – grill fresh salmon or seafood, which can be found everywhere in the FSU and Latin America, (use an electric grill) with a bit of olive oil and fresh garlic and place it on a bed of salad greens lightly coated in more oil and vinegar. Top with freshly chopped dill and a dab of caviar. Easy, right? Light the candles, pour the champagne with a raspberry or half - strawberry inside each glass. Tell her you have a surprise for her that she can have after dinner. Later... bring out a carefully wrapped, gorgeously presented group of boxes and gift bags. Add ribbons, lace and whatever you can to enhance the presentation. Tell her you want her to have all the gifts but only if she agrees to a few conditions. She gets them in the order you want her to have them, and she has to try them all on…viola – your foreign bride fashion show. Now – the key to this whole thing being the experience you want it to be – is your preparation and presentation. This will be very anti-climactic if you slough on the atmosphere, the wrapping or the choice of items. Do all of these very carefully and with thoughtful consideration. Get creative and set up a curtain that can be used in the room behind which she can try things on. Have decorative candle holders throughout the room, (carefully placed AWAY from anything flammable, obviously. Burning down the flat would be a downer.) She is your girl, after all. Make it really impressive – and here’s how. You may have noticed that your foreign girl, wherever she is from and like so many other foreign women – has a beautiful, healthy body just right for modern fashion. If she never moved you’d swear she was a department store mannequin, that’s how flawless she is, right? So although the idea of having to shop for and buy women’s clothing is completely unthinkable to most guys – you can easily do this for your girl. You can walk into any mall and find stores that cater to the young, slim, and Model-esq girls. Some of the most popular stores where such American and Hispanic women shop are Victoria's Secret, Charlotte Russe, Wet Seal, Bebe, Aeropostale, Forever 21, – and there are many others. Typically each store will have complete outfits – skirts, blouses and tops – on display walls or mannequins. Find a few great items that go well together – and buy them. Compliment them with some of the jewelry offered in the same stores. These aren’t expensive. Ask for help, you’ll probably get some good suggestions. It's probably a bad idea to try to buy selections one piece at a time unless you consider yourself really familiar with ladies fashions. Buy a size small or maybe a medium and you’ll be perfectly perfect. Avoid pants or jeans – buy skirts and short dresses. Take your time and buy attractive, unique items. If you just go by matching colors and items paired together in the store displays it’s almost impossible to screw up. Go out and shop without buying the first few times if you need to. This will give you some great ideas! And your girl - believe me - is going to look fantastic! Yes, you can also include items like lingerie if you are absolutely sure the two of you are about to be intimate or if you’ve already become lovers. Don’t buy something too racy, but definitely choose silky, satiny negligees, teddy’s, body-stockings, hosiery, etc. Do not only include these items in your gift selection – that’s a little too one-sided. Here’s a true bonus about shopping with the above retailers… much of their clothing – get this – is made in America! So your girl will have high quality clothing that is from the US! That’s quite rare in the FSU. Here’s another bonus – most of these stores offer really attractive articles that are $25 - $30! And the sale racks are always stocked with some great buys. Clothes in Russia and Ukraine are way more expensive than here. I remember Viktoria talking about how she used to save for a few weeks to buy a pair of pants or shoes and when she bought pants or shoes she always chose black because it went with everything she already had. You can easily give her several very nice complete sets without overspending. And if you happen to know her shoe size – go for it. After she opens a few boxes, she’ll get the idea and love it! Blouses, skirts, lingerie, shoes, boots, simple but very attractive jewelry, perfume. Spend a little – it’s for a great cause! You’ll love her reaction and you’ll blow her friends away by showing your gift-giving prowess. So… for the sake of painting an accurate picture of what this should look like, follow the links below to typical examples of the above… and imagine how easily you could do this and how much fun it would be. Again, the whole entire key to success here is to choose your gift items wisely. Remember fashions are seasonal. Don't buy anything she won't wear right away. And avoid anything too risqué, too flashy. And as I said before – learn how to wrap a gift well and tie some ribbon! Wrinkled gift bags aren’t the effect you’re looking for. You can give her all the gift items at once then tell her to go and try them all on for you. Dim the lights, set the music and let the fashion show begin! Have a good variety of items that all compliment each other well. Save the lingerie for last. If you find the right girl, she’ll give you a lingerie fashion show. Just to drive the idea home - here are some typical things I would buy for my Viktoria: (Click each picture for more info.) |
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