If you're new to international dating and marriage - you've got questions! LOTS of questions! There are questions you know you need to ask and have answers for. There are also questions you had no idea you should ask and have answers for in order to avoid scams, save money and, ultimately, ensure your success! Here is a PARTIAL list of questions I address in my book Foreign Bride 101: A "How-To" for Nice Guys! WHY DO FOREIGN WOMEN SEEK HUSBANDS FROM ABROAD? Are these women for real? How long have women been seeking to meet foreign men over the internet? How do International Marriage Agencies (IMA's) recruit their women? Do women have to pay to post their profiles? Do IMA's screen these women? Why would women of such beauty and high quality join an international marriage agency? Aren't most of these women just after money or citizenship? Do IMA's every buy profiles from other agencies? Are these women paid models? Why are some women dressed conservatively in their photos while others show revealing poses or lingerie? Why do some women post their profiles at several different web-sites? What do foreign women think of the men who seek them as wives? Do foreign women believe all Americans are rich? Are women who join IMA's only interested in wealthy men? Are foreign women interested in only attractive men? Are women of Russia and Ukraine interested in meeting Latin men and gentlemen of color? Why do so many foreign women want to leave their country? Are there any statistics which show how successful these international marriages are? What are the basic differences between Latin American women and women of the Former Soviet Union? What are the basic differences between Russian and Ukrainian women? AM I READY FOR THE FOREIGN BRIDE EXPERIENCE? What is IMBRA and how will it affect my search for a foreign bride? I am currently living paycheck to paycheck, should I even think about searching for a foreign bride now? How much money do I need to make to support my foreign wife and family? My job requires me to travel during the week? How will a foreign bride react to having to be home for certain lengths of time? How do I convince my friends, family and coworkers that this is a good idea? I would like to start writing to some of these beautiful women but I won't be ready to travel for at least another year. Should I wait? I would like to meet a woman who doesn't want to work, who will stay at home and take care of the house and children. Can I do that? I currently share a home with relatives. Do foreign brides want their own space? I noticed many single women's profiles from the FSU are single mom's. I would like to meet a girl without children. Is that possible? What are the questions I should be asking myself right now, in order to know for sure I am absolutely ready for the foreign bride search? I am looking at all these profiles of beautiful women from a certain city but I only find one or two attractive. What do I do? I am not really interested in dating women my age. I would like to find someone much younger. How much of an age difference is acceptable to foreign women? How do I meet only women who speak English? If so many foreign women want to meet a guy, shouldn't they learn English to increase their chances? HOW DO I WRITE LETTERS THAT GET A RESPONSE AND USE CORRESPONDENCE TO FIND HER? Is it OK to send the same letter to several different women? How can I tell if the woman I am writing to is still available and not just an outdated profile? Should I expect every girl I write to respond whether she is interested in me or not? What can I say in my letters to increase my chances of getting a response? What if I am having difficulty deciding which of two or three cities to travel to? What things shouldn't I mention in my letters? I met a great girl on one of those free dating sites. She says she can come here for a visit if I can help her with paying for her visa and international travel. How much money should I send her? How do I translate my letters for the women I want to write who don't speak English? I am really not much of a letter writer. Is correspondence really necessary to meet a foreign bride? WHAT ARE THE TRAVEL OPTIONS FOR MEETING FOREIGN WOMEN? I am seriously traveling to meet a foreign lady I have been writing to. What are the advantages or disadvantages of traveling solo versus an organized tour? So what exactly is a romance tour? I heard that some men travel to other countries to participate in illegal sex tours. Are romance tours actually sex tours? Are romance tours legal in the foreign countries in which they operate? Is it true that only guys who are desperate losers attend these romance tours? What kind of women attend romance tour socials? I have heard that some women do not like to attend romance tour social events. Is that true? Are the women who attend romance tour socials seriously looking for a man or just taking advantage of a free meal? Do women from outside the designated tour city ever attend socials? Are romance tours generally held in safe cities? What percent of women who attend romance tour functions speak English? Is there a lot of competition among the men for certain girls? What are the ratios of women to men at romance tour socials? Do couples who meet on romance tours become intimate right away? When will I be invited to her home to meet her family - and what will that be like? HOW WILL WE ESTABLISH OUR COMMITMENT TO EACH OTHER? When the time is right, should I buy her a ring and formally propose? What things should I expect to pay for during the Fiancée visa process? Will my Fiancée be able to pay for her flight to America or should I expect to do it? How can I build and maintain my new relationship from a distance while waiting for the Fiancée visa interview? What can I do to make her feel comfortable in her new home? WHAT ARE THE TYPICAL SCAMS AND HOW CAN I AVOID THEM? My girl already has her tourist visa. She scanned it and sent it to me in my email. Surely, hat's not a scam... right? I've been writing to a foreign girl who has been asking me to send money to pay for internet costs. Is this typical and how much should I send? Do agencies ever pay girls to write to men? I've been asked by a girl I am writing to pay for urgent medical expenses for her or a member of her family. Should I send money in this case? I plan to participate in a romance tour and am writing to several ladies I expect to meet. One is suggesting we meet at a mall or an expensive restaurant for a first date. Is this typical and acceptable? My girl tells me she would cook me a home-made meal but she doesn't have a lot of food. Should I take her shopping to buy some? My foreign girl and I have spent considerable time together, have become intimate and are applying for the Fiancée visa together. Yet despite all this, she refuses to say she loves me. She says it is too early. Does this make sense? What should I do if I think I am being scammed? This is my best effort to encourage you to come and share the peace of mind I possess, finally after 41 years. I once stood where you stand. I realized one day, coming home late from work as I saw in the doorway through a window the shoes of my new family that once again, I belonged to someone. THAT is the best feeling on Earth. Belonging to no one - that's true despair. We weren't met for it. It's simply not God's plan. I hope something I have written here will empower you to reach out, over vast distances and cultural paradigms to the one unique person who can complete who you are. I hope your dream of love will be realized as mine and so many others has. I hope our world governments don't screw a good thing up for us all. Boy, am I dreaming or what? Most of all, I hope your flight will be smooth and trouble-free. |
| Foreign Bride 101 A partial list of topics covered in the book: |
| Foreign Bride 101 A "How-To" For Nice Guys By Bud Patterson |
| A must-read for anyone seriously considering the search for a foreign bride! Save money Avoid Scams! Find HER! 113 pages! Buy it now! |
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| About The Author: For 9 years, Bud Patterson has hosted weekly telephone conferences for an international audience to answer your questions around the foreign bride experience. Happily married to a lovely Russian lady he met in 2001, Bud has spent the last 7 years interviewing hundreds of foreign ladies to reveal their true reasons for finding a husband abroad. He has also guided hundreds of men successfully through the foreign bride journey! From the book: "This book has a unique focus and purpose. It will offer up-front, direct, no-nonsense information that will empower the would be foreign bride finder who is still fence bound, unable to take that decisive leap out of self-doubt and into self-realization. I want to do everything I can to encourage you to move beyond these pages to the greatest love experience of your life. I've coached hundreds of men to break their dating paradigm so they could meet these amazing women and change their lives and destinies." About The Book : Foreign Bride 101 answers over 100 of your most frequently asked questions around the foreign bride experience in a candid, conversational style that is thought-provoking and believable. This book makes an all out effort to dispel the popular myths around so called mail-order-brides and the men who seek them. It also gives an honest assessment of the mail-order-bride business from a true insider, revealing the most common scams and how to avoid them. If you're serious about finding a life-partner from abroad, Foreign Bride 101 could save you thousands of dollars and a world of headache and frustration! More importantly, it could offer you the shortest possible path to HER! |
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